Things happen naturally,they just flow like a river.
So being said,you should never expect things.
Why's that?
Because when you expect,your mind quickly creates hope for things, and hope means a chance to succeed,now,this,already makes you believe you're going to succeed or 'get' something,not only that,your mind also begins counting on it for other things.
Aaaand when you fail? Or do not get it delieved? What happens? The world drops,right?
But it is stupid,because it isn't supposed to be this way,not if you forget to expect things and just do them.
It all happens because you create expectations for things you don't know the result of,maybe if you already knew the result,that'd be something else.
Let us say - A bet. Nobody will ever know the bet's winner,of course not,it is gambling. So when you create expectations,you start believing the bet will be won,when you can also lose,with the same chance.
You should never make expectations,yet plans. Because plans fail and we're used to it.
Never expect,just do it for the main reason of it. Like gambling,it is supposed to be fun,so just do it for the fun instead.
Daniel Viana Alencar.
